Maintaining those Expectations

We, females, have high expectations sometimes. Its the harsh reality that when we expect the picture perfect fantasy to become reality. We day dream that prince charming will be come rescue us when we need to. We imagine a candlelit picnic dinner for two at a park or a beautiful ocean when the sun sets. And then SPLAT! Everything becomes a reality. The truth is that if you expect too much from a guy, you are going to burn him out. Males do want to impress you, but they should not be subejcted to it 24/7. Men should be able to be themselves around you such as hanging out at home and watching a movie, a stroll by the beach, or even a simple dinner and a movie. Please do not expect him to be your knight in shining armor because that is asking for too much. Also do not expect a guy to spend all his time with you. This guy whoever he is probably had a life before he met you. Let him live his life and you can live your life. Do not make him choose between you and his friends. If you are a realistic thinker like myself, I believe in friendships than I do in relationships. A relationship can last a short time while friendships last forever. So this is what I’m asking. Do not narrow down your expectations and please be realistic. I know we live in a world that is glamorized by the media, but what does the media know about today’s dating.


About Phoenix

This is a twitter/tumblr collaborative project where a 20something year old female attempts to find events and things to do in SD. Because I am a student, I will try to find things to do on a budget, for free, and/or costly.
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