Franklin D. Roosevelt one said, ” there is nothing to fear but fear itself.”If there is something I absolutely detest about the female species, its fear about being alone. The other day I was talking to my best friend who has been having problem with her boyfriend for the past couple of years. He had lying to her for the past 3 years about his whereabouts, going to parties and cities without her. He has developed a drug habit but hid it discreetly. He fell out of love with her at one point, but they managed. He constantly flirts with this girl from their work place and how she felt guilty for being jealous. She went on and on about his negative qualities.
I tell my friend she is better off without him. Honestly, when I look at the two, they are going in two different directions: she is going to grad school and he is saving money for video games. Two different directions.
However, she told me she was still in love with him. I asked her, is it because you’re afraid to be alone? She averted her eyes and looked at the ground. It meant that she admitted that she did not know how to be alone and single in our world. I think she’s insecure about herself that is the reason why she is with this guy. Yea he might seem like Prince Charming now, but the way I see it, he’s a dousche.
To all the women out there: tell yourself this – You deserve better. You deserve to be happy. You deserve the best. You deserve to feel good about yourself.